Love is always One sided

It makes me happy that’s why I’m doing it.

People are doing things to make themselves happy by saying the above said famous line. All of us trying to make ourself happy and becoming selfish as we never think about the second person.

Love is always One sided and most of the  people are in dilemma that love is always two sided which is not true as two sided love is only a expectation of our mind which has no connection with true love. We can’t control other side love, we can control our side only and how to do it is the question.

What makes me happy???? Today’s whole world is doing this thing to make themselves happy which is only a selfish approach towards any relation and it will lead to conflicts as we are not thinking about others.

In any relation when conflicts occurs it’s always because both person are thinking about their happiness. Both person have the same pain but one think that only I am in pain and other has less or no pain.

You can’t be happy by running for happiness for yourself. When we accept this thing that love is only one sided then we have no expectations from other and this is called true or pure love.

But ,no expectations is not our cup of tea as we are born to expect things. Expectation in my words is freedom of thoughts to accept bad or good things of other when you are in love with anyone.

Conflicts occurs when we have different state of mind in our relation which is not common and we only compare this common thing when we feel that love is both sided . 

If we accept that love is one sided then only we start loving the person even his or her negative points too.

Give freedom of thoughts to your Love.

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Respect your Girl

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Women is a beautiful creation of God and any relation with her whether it is Friend , Mother , Love , Sister will give you happiness through out your  Life.

Companionship is a loose string that needs to be tied with the pearls of love as well as respect. You may love your woman the most, but unless you respect her,you won’t be able to go too far in the long run. It will only last for few months.
Women are wired differently from men. They have their own fantasy donot argue with them.Try not enforcing your own sane and sober thoughts on her every now and then.

Your woman is committed to you more than you can ever surmise. On the odd occasion though, she might wish to stay by herself and not communicate with you for a certain period. This is a clear sign of a thoughtful person and giving her that space is important. Do not expect her to be at your beck and call all the time. And if she’s a working woman, don’t call her every time you feel like talking to her during the day. That is harassment, not love.

When she tells you something, the least you must do is listen to her. If you disagree with her opinion, explain your stand with a proper justification rather than a blanket opinion.

By treating a woman with respect you are actually giving her the signal that you love her just the way she is. It’s the quickest and easiest way to her heart.

Your Respect is more important than your Love for her.


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