Love is always One sided


It makes me happy that’s why I’m doing it.

People are doing things to make themselves happy by saying the above said famous line. All of us trying to make ourself happy and becoming selfish as we never think about the second person.

Love is always One sided and most of the  people are in dilemma that love is always two sided which is not true as two sided love is only a expectation of our mind which has no connection with true love. We can’t control other side love, we can control our side only and how to do it is the question.

What makes me happy???? Today’s whole world is doing this thing to make themselves happy which is only a selfish approach towards any relation and it will lead to conflicts as we are not thinking about others.

In any relation when conflicts occurs it’s always because both person are thinking about their happiness. Both person have the same pain but one think that only I am in pain and other has less or no pain.

You can’t be happy by running for happiness for yourself. When we accept this thing that love is only one sided then we have no expectations from other and this is called true or pure love.

But ,no expectations is not our cup of tea as we are born to expect things. Expectation in my words is freedom of thoughts to accept bad or good things of other when you are in love with anyone.

Conflicts occurs when we have different state of mind in our relation which is not common and we only compare this common thing when we feel that love is both sided . 

If we accept that love is one sided then only we start loving the person even his or her negative points too.

Give freedom of thoughts to your Love.

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Is your look is your identity?


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Few days before I have seen a video where a group organize an activity in which they examine how people attract from beauty not from person .

An activity describes:

First Test : A small girl was in lead role , organizers dressed her like a poor girl and tell her to stand in the middle of  the street . People passed from that lane saw her and find her poor by her cloths so they ignored her and even not asked her from where she came from.

This test shows that if you wear teared cloths then may be no one see you or praise you as your first expression towards people will become your identity and people judge you accordingly.

Second Test : To prove these above said assumption wrong , team decided to do makeover of the small girl and dressed her like a doll and tell her to stand at the previous place.

Few minute later , one lady came to her and asked from whom she belong and sooner many people came close to see her or clicked pictures with her because of her beauty and charm.

This test confirmed their assumptions true which concludes that 90 % of people believe your beauty is your identity and they recognize you with it only.

 

Dear Readers , we want your assumption & comments on this.

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