Love is always One sided


It makes me happy that’s why I’m doing it.

People are doing things to make themselves happy by saying the above said famous line. All of us trying to make ourself happy and becoming selfish as we never think about the second person.

Love is always One sided and most of the  people are in dilemma that love is always two sided which is not true as two sided love is only a expectation of our mind which has no connection with true love. We can’t control other side love, we can control our side only and how to do it is the question.

What makes me happy???? Today’s whole world is doing this thing to make themselves happy which is only a selfish approach towards any relation and it will lead to conflicts as we are not thinking about others.

In any relation when conflicts occurs it’s always because both person are thinking about their happiness. Both person have the same pain but one think that only I am in pain and other has less or no pain.

You can’t be happy by running for happiness for yourself. When we accept this thing that love is only one sided then we have no expectations from other and this is called true or pure love.

But ,no expectations is not our cup of tea as we are born to expect things. Expectation in my words is freedom of thoughts to accept bad or good things of other when you are in love with anyone.

Conflicts occurs when we have different state of mind in our relation which is not common and we only compare this common thing when we feel that love is both sided . 

If we accept that love is one sided then only we start loving the person even his or her negative points too.

Give freedom of thoughts to your Love.

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Let them hate you


If you’re like most people, you probably waste a huge percentage of your time worrying about what others think about you, and then behaving in a way that will prevent others from disliking you.

But why do we do this? What’s so wrong with being hated for who you are?

We are raised to believe that it’s good to be liked by as many people as possible, as demonstrated by politeness, giving respect to elders regardless of their behavior. We are told, in no uncertain terms, that it’s good to be loved and bad to be hated.

But is this true? What do we lose when we try to win someone’s love? I believe nothing.

We explore a world without people-pleasing and fake, manipulative attempts to make people like you. You need not to try to please people as you have rights to do whatever you want without harming anyone.

People need a point for gossip. If you do good things then also people find a negative point ,so don’t need to luer anyone just leave what people say or why they hate as they themselves don’t know why they hate.

Let them hate you.. you  just need to move on.

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An Ant life


Ant is a very small insect on this planet and a wonderful creature to teach us about life vs hard work.

Ant start it’s daily routine early in the morning and do hard work through out the day. They basically work in group and achieve task with their easy planning.

They teach us the value of togetherness and it’s power. They consistently walk whole day and never feel tired as they know that their hard work will surely give them sweet result.

They work basically in summers to collect their food for winters so that they can easily spend winters in their nests.

The lesson for humans : Working together may be the key of better decision.

The best lesson we can learn from ants is the value of team work and unity. Watch a team of ants, how they manage to carry heavy loads or leaves , grasses  from one point to another, in a group. Its a perfect combination at work, not a single wrong step anywhere.

We too need to learn these techniques for our day to day life to make our life easy and simple. We have to keep on our efforts without thinking the results as hard work with smart work never fails .

We need to live our life in simple way as ants do and believe in togetherness and team can bring better results than an individual.
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Discover Yourself


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Who are you? If you can’t promptly answer that question you don’t have a very clear picture of your own identity. Having a clear image of yourself is essential in relationships, self-confidence and growth. Just as it’s impossible to reach your destination when you don’t know where you are, it is impossible to become who you want to be when you aren’t clear on who you are.

Ask yourself why you want to discover yourself : A tough question to think a right answer

Growth : Soon if you are unable to find yourself your growth will effect as it is impossible to start making movements towards where you want to be.

Relationships:

By determining exactly what product you are selling along with its features and weaknesses you will unknowingly market a product to whoever you meet. Because most people aren’t quite sure what product they are selling they can’t possibly market it effectively.

But when you know exactly what you are selling then you can start to present yourself in a way that will attract people who are interested in buying this product. Of course this is true of all types of human relationships, be they friendship, business or intimate.

Self Satisfaction:

Knowing that, for right now, this is who you are, has an amazing level of self-satisfaction. When you are completely honest or unsure about who you are it is easy to get trapped into looking at tiny imperfections because you can’t perceive the whole.

Write the good & the bad:

You might be find difficult to write negative about yourself but this process able you you discover yourself what you like or what dislike.When you write these things down, realize that they are a part of you too. Accept the truth that these are components of your identity. Uncovering these parts can be the most difficult, but it is absolutely necessary if you want a clear identity that can be improved upon.

Improve it

Work on your bad things and improve it before it you get late.Working on your own negative part teach you to how judge others negative part and soon you will know other identity too.

You need to do the same thing with your identity. Find the parts of yourself that you didn’t like and begin the process of changing them. Find the parts of yourself that you did like and accentuate them even more throughout your identity.

Slowly you are close to discover yourself and once you know yourself your life will become so easy to live for. Difficulties comes when you have less knowledge about yourself and then you start judging others too as as are on judging mode of yourself too.

Believe in you is the biggest thing one can ever do for self motivation and if you do all these thing I think you are on your first steps to creating a life you really want.

 

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Ideals Know No Boundary


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Any Business has a direct effect on the social condition. In a society such as ours, where the divide between the rich & the poor is gigantic, it becomes the responsibility of entrepreneurs to act ethically and give back in some way.

There’s a simple question that lies at the heart of every decision that a business will have to take. If that were the talisman that one always wore, we’ll adding tremendous value to the lives of people and, quite naturally, enhancing the country’s economic prosperity. By extension, we will, as a business, also grow in finance and in people’s estimation.

The question is merely this : would my action enhance respect for my company or for me in the society ?

This is, I believe, at the heart of the idealism of capitalism. At this stage in the history of India when capitalism is new, when we see lot of poverty around us, when 700 to 800 million Indians live with hardly two meals a day, it is incumbent on every leader of capitalism to demonstrate that idealism. I believe that entrepreneurship is the only instrument in our hands to create jobs and put income into the hands of people and make them economically viable.

 

 

 

Taken from outlook , thoughts of N.R. Narayana Murthy

 

Hijab “My Religion Beauty”


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Why people have problem with my Hijab?

Are they not able to see me or they want to judge me…. For all those who judge & disrespect my Hijab.

My Hijab is my religion’s beauty its not my Fashion to hide myself , Its a shell in which I feel myself protected from negative energies.

My Hijab is my right, my cover , my choice & my life.It give me power to respect my religion , my Allah , my feminism & my wearing.

It is not about what brand I wear its about how religious I am.

I don’t want to let people know who I am . I just want to give my best, do my best .

My hijab covers my hair but it opens my mind to think differently.

Respect me then respect my Hijab .

 

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Forgive & Forget.


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Holding grudges will only lead you towards bad stuffs of Life. People do mistakes and they are born to do the same. A good person is one who forgive others mistakes not because he has nature of forgiveness it is because he don’t want to carry bad memories in his life.

Forgive is when you don’t want to make an issue of any mistakes and continue with that person . Forget is when you don’t want to recall bad things.

You must forgive a person for his mistake and forget it once but repeatedly will lead to worst situation and one day you will loose your own trust.

It is well said, “You cheat me once, shame on you; you cheat me twice, shame on me.”

Forgiveness is an attitude which we learn  from our elders but we our self learn how to forget bad things.

Forgive and Forget bad things once only because it may be done by-chance or by-mistake but second time it must be done willingly.

Its well said ” If you want to live happily forgive others mistakes but don’t forget , just learn from it.

 

 

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