Is your look is your identity?


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Few days before I have seen a video where a group organize an activity in which they examine how people attract from beauty not from person .

An activity describes:

First Test : A small girl was in lead role , organizers dressed her like a poor girl and tell her to stand in the middle of  the street . People passed from that lane saw her and find her poor by her cloths so they ignored her and even not asked her from where she came from.

This test shows that if you wear teared cloths then may be no one see you or praise you as your first expression towards people will become your identity and people judge you accordingly.

Second Test : To prove these above said assumption wrong , team decided to do makeover of the small girl and dressed her like a doll and tell her to stand at the previous place.

Few minute later , one lady came to her and asked from whom she belong and sooner many people came close to see her or clicked pictures with her because of her beauty and charm.

This test confirmed their assumptions true which concludes that 90 % of people believe your beauty is your identity and they recognize you with it only.

 

Dear Readers , we want your assumption & comments on this.

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The Most Important Question Of Your Life


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Human mind can thinks between 60,000 – 80,000 thoughts a day. That’s an average of 2500 – 3,300 thoughts per hour. That’s incredible.

Did you notice what kind of thoughts do you think?
If you pay attention to these thoughts, you would be amazed to discover that most of them are useless, unimportant thoughts that pass through the mind with a huge speed. These are words you repeat in your mind, comments the mind makes, repeating what you heard said, questions, answers and a lot of senseless wandering thoughts that you might not even be aware of.

What’s the MOST IMPORTANT ?

Out of all these thoughts there is only one question which is the most important question of your life like in millions of sperms only one sperm reach to ovum and create a Baby. Our question is what is the Most important question of your life and one can say ,” I want to earn money , Good Job and a happy family ” , It it so or the actual thing you want.

Have you ever asked yourself  , ” what pain do you want in your life? What are you willing to struggle for? Because that seems to be a greater determinant of how our lives turn out.

Everybody want to live a happy Life , need happy family , earn lots of money , travel the whole world , want their family safe , need all electronic gadgets , want all kind of relief , branded cloths and 2-3 Mercedes and a high profile Job.

People want to be rich without the risk , without the sacrifice, without the delayed gratification necessary to accumulate wealth.

Everybody wants to have great sex and an awesome relationship— but not everyone is willing to go through the tough conversations, the awkward silences, the hurt feelings and the emotional psychodrama to get there. And so they settle.

Everybody wants something. And everybody wants something enough.They just aren’t aware of what it is they want, or rather, what they want “enough.”

I think that for me the most important question of my Life it ” How much I am ready to  suffer or to take pain” , so that I will know the real happiness of the life because getting things easily may not give you that charm which you will get after your tough times. That feeling is the real happiness of life.

It’s the question that can change your life. It’s what makes me me and you you. It’s what defines us and separates us and ultimately brings us together.

This is the most simple and basic component of life: our struggles determine our successes. So choose your struggles wisely and ask yourself how much you are ready to struggle.

 

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Love Vs Lust


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Love : A pure bonding between two souls and true feelings with no expectations. Love can’t be define , it itself complete and one can feel its presence only if he /she has pure heart.Love can’t harm anyone , it can give tears but it can’t give pain of not getting something .You want to spend quality time together other than sex.You get lost in conversations and forget about the hours passing. you want to get to meet his or her family and friends .You can’t stop thinking about that person. In love , you can’t look anything except eyes as in it you will find your whole world.In love you can spend your entire life without criticizing.

 

Lust : There is no bonding in Lust . It has only addiction of getting yourself satisfied.In this you can’t see the dedication of love or even you can’t judge the emotions of love. In lust love is no where.Yeah there must be attraction for someone to getting him/her or jealousy for not fulfilling your  desires. In lust , you have addiction of one’s body not soul.

One can never talk about Family & friends and always want to meet alone . Eyes are not the connecting link here it always starts other than Eyes. In lust , you always complain not to do this & that and never appreciate your partner.

I hope our readers like this differentiate and want some more explanation then send us on comment.

Reading ” A good habit and a bad addiction.


reading booksReading any thing is good to increase your knowledge but over reading can harm your thoughts.

We all knows that addiction of anything is not good for anyone whether it is related to good or bad things, addiction will always has bad results.

Good things about reading is :

  1. To know about authors prospective
  2. To know how to improve vocabulary.
  3. To know how to express feelings
  4. To know inspirational things
  5. To educate yourself
  6. Improved focus & concentration
  7. Get free entertainment
  8. To know how to reduce stress

Bad things about reading to avoid:

  1. Getting wrong thoughts
  2. Avoid feel the feeling of author
  3. Resist yourself to perform like the character
  4. Avoid getting emotional with the books
  5. Stop reading nonsense things
  6. Try to get rid of over reading or searching a lot about the topic

We all know that learning is good for us and get updated is cool enough.

Hope you guys like this short article and also subscribe for our next article.

 

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Right to Education


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Right to Education is every Child’s fundamental right 

Our Nation is promoting “Beti Bachao Beti Padhao abhiyan ” means Save Girls Educate Girls campaign.

If we are talking about education then it is mandatory for both boys & girls but people from past generation still believe that girls are born only to take care of home & do home activities . This underdeveloped thinking is still the cause of many countries growth. We have to change or get over from this mindset as today every child is equal whether its boy or girl.

I believe  in freedom to do things by your own way and no indiscretion , Fatwa & underdeveloped thoughts restrict you to not do those things.

Today’s generations are blessed with money as in past people donot have money to send their children to schools. We have opportunities to do something for our nation so as to educate our children for their & nation’s better future.

Its not only Army & Navy guys are doing job to protect our nation. God has given chance to each & every person to do something for their nation in different ways.Given your life is not the only way to prove your patriotism ,its only your good thoughts which will remain in others memory after your death.

We want people to open their mind and think freely and give education to their children. Good education will make their carrier and give different & logical thoughts to next generation .

We want our readers to  support & pass this message to each and every individual so that we can spread it widely.

Share as much as you can.

 

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Discover Yourself


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Who are you? If you can’t promptly answer that question you don’t have a very clear picture of your own identity. Having a clear image of yourself is essential in relationships, self-confidence and growth. Just as it’s impossible to reach your destination when you don’t know where you are, it is impossible to become who you want to be when you aren’t clear on who you are.

Ask yourself why you want to discover yourself : A tough question to think a right answer

Growth : Soon if you are unable to find yourself your growth will effect as it is impossible to start making movements towards where you want to be.

Relationships:

By determining exactly what product you are selling along with its features and weaknesses you will unknowingly market a product to whoever you meet. Because most people aren’t quite sure what product they are selling they can’t possibly market it effectively.

But when you know exactly what you are selling then you can start to present yourself in a way that will attract people who are interested in buying this product. Of course this is true of all types of human relationships, be they friendship, business or intimate.

Self Satisfaction:

Knowing that, for right now, this is who you are, has an amazing level of self-satisfaction. When you are completely honest or unsure about who you are it is easy to get trapped into looking at tiny imperfections because you can’t perceive the whole.

Write the good & the bad:

You might be find difficult to write negative about yourself but this process able you you discover yourself what you like or what dislike.When you write these things down, realize that they are a part of you too. Accept the truth that these are components of your identity. Uncovering these parts can be the most difficult, but it is absolutely necessary if you want a clear identity that can be improved upon.

Improve it

Work on your bad things and improve it before it you get late.Working on your own negative part teach you to how judge others negative part and soon you will know other identity too.

You need to do the same thing with your identity. Find the parts of yourself that you didn’t like and begin the process of changing them. Find the parts of yourself that you did like and accentuate them even more throughout your identity.

Slowly you are close to discover yourself and once you know yourself your life will become so easy to live for. Difficulties comes when you have less knowledge about yourself and then you start judging others too as as are on judging mode of yourself too.

Believe in you is the biggest thing one can ever do for self motivation and if you do all these thing I think you are on your first steps to creating a life you really want.

 

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Billionaire


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What is Billionaire?

We hear about “Billionaires” constantly. The term usually evokes images of celebrities, athletes and business leaders. We assume Bill Gates , Warren Buffet , Jack Ma , Mukesh Ambani etc are  all Billionaires.

We might also assume that a Billionaire literally has a Billion dollars of cash laying around, ready to be spent.

So what exactly defines a Billionaire? The answer isn’t as straightforward as you might expect.

The technical definition of “billionaire” is a person (or a married couple) with a net worth that’s greater than $1 billion U.S. dollars.

“Net worth” represents that person’s assets, minus their liabilities. Net worth is described as “what you own minus what you owe.”

How to Become?

  • Find your area of passion , don’t worry whether that field is the field everyone is pursuing or whether it is field which is in fashion. Even if it something which sounds boring but you may have passion for it then just go for it.
  • Once you find your passion, eat , sleep , breath it. Everything around and inside your interest area should be known by you. Trust me if it is actually your passion this will not take any effort.
  • Be extremely firm about your goal, don’t change it or don’t plan to shift after a few years just for the sake of experience.
  • Don’t be tempted. Through your journey, you will see your friends having fancy jobs and making more money. Ignore it. Just be focus and enjoy about what you are doing and never for one moment lose faith. Gap between you and your friends won’t take time to reverse.
  • Be healthy. Sounds irrelevant to the topic but trust me if you are fit, good looking with a good personality , your life will much easier. Even in low times, you will feel good looking at yourself in the mirror or just going for a jog.
  • Be in the Company of people those are crazy for hardwork & money. Looking at these people you will have no option but to up your strength.
  • Focus on the journey more than the goal. If your journey is pleasant, the goal won’t seem far.
  • Lastly, on your way to the top leave behind friends not ‘contacts’. One day one of these friends is gonna be reason to give you that extra million to make that billion
  • Sincerity, dedication, happiness and pure passion. Simple words but extremely difficult to pursue.

There are various other routes to become a billionaire. In my opinion , this is the way which cannot go wrong. Best of luck for your journey.