Know your People

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How much you know your people? Do you really know them or only judging them or its all your perception of knowing them .

Questions you should ask yourself ?

  1. Do you know them as per their Social info ?
  2. Do you know them as per other’s opinion ?
  3. Do you know them as per their work performance ?
  4. Do you know them as per their official/ professional look ?


5. Do you know them WHAT THEY ACTUALLY ARE ?

Basically we know our people as per the above mentioned 4 Points and we hardly focus on the 5th point as for it we need to work on that person to know him/her and rest 4 Points are easy to Judge anyone.

Every person has dual personality within it . One , which he/she is showing to others as per his/her social , professional & upfront behavior . Second one is what he/she actually is.

Its is difficult to examine the difference between two of them that who is real & who is not and once we know the phenomenon of knowing the difference then we will be able to know exactly about the person.

No one will exactly tell you about how you know your people but yes, you can focus on all 4 points and choose a common behavior out of them to exactly know the 5th point that is what actually is.

All the Best for your Knowing Journey.


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What is U in YOU?


Yes, I am talking about “U” in you ,which explain what is U.

Its about Understanding you have in yourself which allow you to know yourself deeply.

Its about Unity you have in your thoughts to express yourself loudly.

Its about Unique nature of your soul which no one can else possess it.

Its about Unzymotic which shows that you are fabulous.

Its about Umbrose which gives shades or duskiness to your appearance.

Its about Unbelievable which tells you that you are the best person from all.

Its about you which you need to know about the U in you.

So start knowing U in yourself.



How to Judge People?


Whenever we ask this question that how we judge people, mostly people answer that on the basis of our thoughts about a particular person we try to judge him/her.

It means that thoughts are the basis reason of  our judgement , then our next question is..

What are thoughts?
As per our article , we can get the answer that what it is. It is basically the bundle of imagination which can increase or decrease its number by its continuous assessment.

Now what is the process of it ,how it comes first, whenever we say any word like Mango , so what comes first in our mind is “yellow color Mango”. So what ever we say ,our mind process that picture fed in our mind data base and then it will reflect which is called thoughts.

Now , Do we need to go as per our thoughts to judge people or we have to directly clear it with face to face interaction.

The correct answer is Face to Face interaction or conversation through which we can discuss about the misunderstanding/issue and clear the topic.

Our main motive is not to clear other’s mind misunderstanding , we need to clear our mind first. We need not to do these things like to think or allow our thoughts to prove or listen others talks. We need to just clear our mind and let other person overthink as now this is his/her problem ,not yours.

Please remember that our job is not to judge anyone , we need to just clear our mind from the bad thoughts that will allow us to overthink about that person and start judgment.

Our thoughts are only the reflection of our mind data base which has no connection with the current reality and to know to someone we need communication not thoughts.

So stop judging anyone and start knowing everyone.


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True my words too

Words too

Words are my world ,I mean each single letter of it

Together we start , together we break ,no discussion further we take

Life is short and Earth is round , may be ,we’ll meet one day.

Hope you never forget my presence ,hope I always guess you by your shade

slowly and slowly its reminding me each day.

Our walk , our talk , it was  like a sisters blog

Our fight , our love , it was like a Tom and Jerry episode .

I wish, I could meet you in my next birth ,

Together forever we can share the best of Best Friend.

My words were not fake , my love was pure,

but  I can’t explain the truth behind my vows.



In memory of my sweetest Childhood Friend .


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Belief Vs Truth

Belief Vs Truth

What is Belief?

Belief is what we think about a particular thing and accept it as a truth is called Belief.

What is Truth?

Truth doesn’t require someone’s thought to prove itself , Truth is always truth no matter what you think.

Belief Vs Truth

For example , When we see someone’s positive points we describe it as a good human being but when the same person do some unexpected thing we immediately change our opinion about him/her.

Actually , we start processing his/her negative points in our mind with overthinking  and find its consciousness to prove it right . Its our belief that the same person is not good as he/she did some wrong conduct as per our opinion but this is not true at all.

Truth is what that person is actual or in reality and we can see someone’s reality only when we remove our all over thoughts from our mind and then see the actual one.

No one is right and wrong for everyone , there are always circumstances which predict the right and wrong of a person, there is always you who over think about a subject and prove it right and wrong in your mind but in reality it is far away from the Truth.

We can only differentiate such things with our knowledge and maturity.

Fire burns is a truth but your soul is yours is a belief as you have nothing your own.



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The Most Important Question Of Your Life


Human mind can thinks between 60,000 – 80,000 thoughts a day. That’s an average of 2500 – 3,300 thoughts per hour. That’s incredible.

Did you notice what kind of thoughts do you think?
If you pay attention to these thoughts, you would be amazed to discover that most of them are useless, unimportant thoughts that pass through the mind with a huge speed. These are words you repeat in your mind, comments the mind makes, repeating what you heard said, questions, answers and a lot of senseless wandering thoughts that you might not even be aware of.


Out of all these thoughts there is only one question which is the most important question of your life like in millions of sperms only one sperm reach to ovum and create a Baby. Our question is what is the Most important question of your life and one can say ,” I want to earn money , Good Job and a happy family ” , It it so or the actual thing you want.

Have you ever asked yourself  , ” what pain do you want in your life? What are you willing to struggle for? Because that seems to be a greater determinant of how our lives turn out.

Everybody want to live a happy Life , need happy family , earn lots of money , travel the whole world , want their family safe , need all electronic gadgets , want all kind of relief , branded cloths and 2-3 Mercedes and a high profile Job.

People want to be rich without the risk , without the sacrifice, without the delayed gratification necessary to accumulate wealth.

Everybody wants to have great sex and an awesome relationship— but not everyone is willing to go through the tough conversations, the awkward silences, the hurt feelings and the emotional psychodrama to get there. And so they settle.

Everybody wants something. And everybody wants something enough.They just aren’t aware of what it is they want, or rather, what they want “enough.”

I think that for me the most important question of my Life it ” How much I am ready to  suffer or to take pain” , so that I will know the real happiness of the life because getting things easily may not give you that charm which you will get after your tough times. That feeling is the real happiness of life.

It’s the question that can change your life. It’s what makes me me and you you. It’s what defines us and separates us and ultimately brings us together.

This is the most simple and basic component of life: our struggles determine our successes. So choose your struggles wisely and ask yourself how much you are ready to struggle.


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