Know your People

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How much you know your people? Do you really know them or only judging them or its all your perception of knowing them .

Questions you should ask yourself ?

  1. Do you know them as per their Social info ?
  2. Do you know them as per other’s opinion ?
  3. Do you know them as per their work performance ?
  4. Do you know them as per their official/ professional look ?


5. Do you know them WHAT THEY ACTUALLY ARE ?

Basically we know our people as per the above mentioned 4 Points and we hardly focus on the 5th point as for it we need to work on that person to know him/her and rest 4 Points are easy to Judge anyone.

Every person has dual personality within it . One , which he/she is showing to others as per his/her social , professional & upfront behavior . Second one is what he/she actually is.

Its is difficult to examine the difference between two of them that who is real & who is not and once we know the phenomenon of knowing the difference then we will be able to know exactly about the person.

No one will exactly tell you about how you know your people but yes, you can focus on all 4 points and choose a common behavior out of them to exactly know the 5th point that is what actually is.

All the Best for your Knowing Journey.


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What is U in YOU?


Yes, I am talking about “U” in you ,which explain what is U.

Its about Understanding you have in yourself which allow you to know yourself deeply.

Its about Unity you have in your thoughts to express yourself loudly.

Its about Unique nature of your soul which no one can else possess it.

Its about Unzymotic which shows that you are fabulous.

Its about Umbrose which gives shades or duskiness to your appearance.

Its about Unbelievable which tells you that you are the best person from all.

Its about you which you need to know about the U in you.

So start knowing U in yourself.



Belief Vs Truth

Belief Vs Truth

What is Belief?

Belief is what we think about a particular thing and accept it as a truth is called Belief.

What is Truth?

Truth doesn’t require someone’s thought to prove itself , Truth is always truth no matter what you think.

Belief Vs Truth

For example , When we see someone’s positive points we describe it as a good human being but when the same person do some unexpected thing we immediately change our opinion about him/her.

Actually , we start processing his/her negative points in our mind with overthinking  and find its consciousness to prove it right . Its our belief that the same person is not good as he/she did some wrong conduct as per our opinion but this is not true at all.

Truth is what that person is actual or in reality and we can see someone’s reality only when we remove our all over thoughts from our mind and then see the actual one.

No one is right and wrong for everyone , there are always circumstances which predict the right and wrong of a person, there is always you who over think about a subject and prove it right and wrong in your mind but in reality it is far away from the Truth.

We can only differentiate such things with our knowledge and maturity.

Fire burns is a truth but your soul is yours is a belief as you have nothing your own.



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Master Mind :- 5 Things You Didn’t Know About Your Mind

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The mind is a mysterious and elusive thing. This list reveals some of the weirdest things about your mind.

1 – Fast asleep? Your unconscious is still listening:

Some people swear that if they want to wake up at 6 am, they just bang their head on the pillow six times before going to sleep. Crazy? Maybe not. A study from 1999 shows that it all comes down to some nifty unconscious processing.

For three nights, a team  put 15 volunteers to bed at midnight. The team either told the participants they would wake them at 9 am and did, or told them they would wake them at 9 am, but actually woke them at 6 am.

This last group had a measurable rise in the stress hormone adrenocorticotropic from 4.30 am, peaking around 6 am. People woken unexpectedly at 6 am had no such spike. The unconscious mind, the researchers concluded, can not only keep track of time while we sleep but also set a biological alarm to jump-start the waking process. The pillow ritual might help set that alarm.

2- Your mind can change your brain :-

Yes, your mind—that is, your thoughts— can change your brain. Odd as it may sound, as you create new thought patterns, you actually rewire your brain. The more you practice a new thinking habit, the more the same neurons will learn to work together and wire together. As neuroscientists say, neurons that fire together, wire together. In other words, “…directed, willed mental activity can clearly and systematically alter brain function.”

What you can do: Deliberately change your self-talk. For example, if you tend to wallow in frustration and anger when you make mistakes, practice telling yourself, “Mistakes are just part of life. I will make a conscious effort to learn from my mistakes.” Or write down the self-talk you’d like to adopt in a given situation, then recite it to yourself when needed.

3-Break bad habits by hacking the autopilot in your brain :-

So much of what we do in our day-to-day lives, whether it be driving, making coffee or touch-typing, happens without the need for conscious thought. Unlike many of the brain’s other unconscious talents, these are skills that have had to be learned before the brain can automate them. How it does this might provide a method for us to think our way out of bad habits.

Ann Graybiel of the Massachusetts Institute of Technology and her colleagues have shown that a region deep inside the brain called the striatum is key to habit forming. When you undertake an action, the prefrontal cortex, which is involved in planning complex tasks, communicates with the striatum, which sends the necessary signals to enact the movement. Over time, input from the prefrontal circuits fades, to be replaced by loops linking the striatum to the sensorimotor cortex. The loops, together with the memory circuits, allow us to carry out the behaviour without having to think about it. Or, to put it another way, practice makes perfect. No thinking required.

4- Simple feeling words can calm your mind and change your brain.

Sad. Anxious. Angry. Whatever emotion is causing you distress, recent research shows that labeling it can ease your upset feelings and help you feel more in control. Attaching a label to an emotion moves your brain activity from the fight-or-flight area (the amygdala) to the thinking area (the prefrontal cortex). It’s astounding what even one word can do.

What you can do: Notice when an emotion is overwhelming you. Search for a word that describes that emotion and then feel your emotions subside.

5-Your brain has a negativity bias, but your mind can teach it to be happier.

The term “negativity bias” refers to the brain’s tendency to react more strongly to bad things—dangers, threats, mistakes, or problems—than to good things, such as pleasure, opportunity, and joy.  Although the negativity bias has helped humans survive by alerting us to possible threats, it makes it harder for us to relax, enjoy life, and be happy.

Luckily, your mind can train your brain to be happier. Focusing on and experiencing the positive aspects of life actually builds new neutral structures in the brain. This is another incredible way that your mind can change your brain for the better.

What you can do: Become aware of pleasant or happy experiences. Bring them to the foreground of your mind. Linger on these experiences for 5 seconds or more. By doing so, you will rewire your brain, making it more likely that you will notice other positive things around you in the future.


Friends , if you know something about our mind then tell us and spread this knowledge.


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My Blog Quality

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My Blog is daily routine work where I have to invest my 1 hour to read all comments , check likes and find new topics to write.

I always focus on the quality of my topic content . I can write small para but should be right and useful.

I don’t believe in long blogs as people now a days doesn’t have time to read much . They basically look for short content but useful .

My main motive is to write learning write-ups through which my readers can gain some knowledge and implement it in their day today life.

My second motive is to write about truth, it may be bitter, uneasy to digest but true.

My third motive and the most important is to write positive things. In our daily life we see & read lots of negative things in news and e papers and I don’t want to give the same to my readers so I always try to write some fresh ,bright & thoughtful content to encourage my readers to elevate their mood and get some kick to work more enthusiastically.

I hope that my readers must watch such qualities in my topics ,kindly reply, if you really.

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Right to Education

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Right to Education is every Child’s fundamental right 

Our Nation is promoting “Beti Bachao Beti Padhao abhiyan ” means Save Girls Educate Girls campaign.

If we are talking about education then it is mandatory for both boys & girls but people from past generation still believe that girls are born only to take care of home & do home activities . This underdeveloped thinking is still the cause of many countries growth. We have to change or get over from this mindset as today every child is equal whether its boy or girl.

I believe  in freedom to do things by your own way and no indiscretion , Fatwa & underdeveloped thoughts restrict you to not do those things.

Today’s generations are blessed with money as in past people donot have money to send their children to schools. We have opportunities to do something for our nation so as to educate our children for their & nation’s better future.

Its not only Army & Navy guys are doing job to protect our nation. God has given chance to each & every person to do something for their nation in different ways.Given your life is not the only way to prove your patriotism ,its only your good thoughts which will remain in others memory after your death.

We want people to open their mind and think freely and give education to their children. Good education will make their carrier and give different & logical thoughts to next generation .

We want our readers to  support & pass this message to each and every individual so that we can spread it widely.

Share as much as you can.


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Discover Yourself

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Who are you? If you can’t promptly answer that question you don’t have a very clear picture of your own identity. Having a clear image of yourself is essential in relationships, self-confidence and growth. Just as it’s impossible to reach your destination when you don’t know where you are, it is impossible to become who you want to be when you aren’t clear on who you are.

Ask yourself why you want to discover yourself : A tough question to think a right answer

Growth : Soon if you are unable to find yourself your growth will effect as it is impossible to start making movements towards where you want to be.


By determining exactly what product you are selling along with its features and weaknesses you will unknowingly market a product to whoever you meet. Because most people aren’t quite sure what product they are selling they can’t possibly market it effectively.

But when you know exactly what you are selling then you can start to present yourself in a way that will attract people who are interested in buying this product. Of course this is true of all types of human relationships, be they friendship, business or intimate.

Self Satisfaction:

Knowing that, for right now, this is who you are, has an amazing level of self-satisfaction. When you are completely honest or unsure about who you are it is easy to get trapped into looking at tiny imperfections because you can’t perceive the whole.

Write the good & the bad:

You might be find difficult to write negative about yourself but this process able you you discover yourself what you like or what dislike.When you write these things down, realize that they are a part of you too. Accept the truth that these are components of your identity. Uncovering these parts can be the most difficult, but it is absolutely necessary if you want a clear identity that can be improved upon.

Improve it

Work on your bad things and improve it before it you get late.Working on your own negative part teach you to how judge others negative part and soon you will know other identity too.

You need to do the same thing with your identity. Find the parts of yourself that you didn’t like and begin the process of changing them. Find the parts of yourself that you did like and accentuate them even more throughout your identity.

Slowly you are close to discover yourself and once you know yourself your life will become so easy to live for. Difficulties comes when you have less knowledge about yourself and then you start judging others too as as are on judging mode of yourself too.

Believe in you is the biggest thing one can ever do for self motivation and if you do all these thing I think you are on your first steps to creating a life you really want.


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