Love is always One sided

It makes me happy that’s why I’m doing it.

People are doing things to make themselves happy by saying the above said famous line. All of us trying to make ourself happy and becoming selfish as we never think about the second person.

Love is always One sided and most of the  people are in dilemma that love is always two sided which is not true as two sided love is only a expectation of our mind which has no connection with true love. We can’t control other side love, we can control our side only and how to do it is the question.

What makes me happy???? Today’s whole world is doing this thing to make themselves happy which is only a selfish approach towards any relation and it will lead to conflicts as we are not thinking about others.

In any relation when conflicts occurs it’s always because both person are thinking about their happiness. Both person have the same pain but one think that only I am in pain and other has less or no pain.

You can’t be happy by running for happiness for yourself. When we accept this thing that love is only one sided then we have no expectations from other and this is called true or pure love.

But ,no expectations is not our cup of tea as we are born to expect things. Expectation in my words is freedom of thoughts to accept bad or good things of other when you are in love with anyone.

Conflicts occurs when we have different state of mind in our relation which is not common and we only compare this common thing when we feel that love is both sided . 

If we accept that love is one sided then only we start loving the person even his or her negative points too.

Give freedom of thoughts to your Love.

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Allow yourself for a New World



Acceptance is a difficult task one should start accepting factual things as soon as possible. We need to prepare our self to accept daily facts & truth and try to come out from our inside dilemma .

Acceptance of the fact that nothing is yours :- You were born with nothing and when you will leave this world you will not carry anything , then for what you are worried about.

Body , Soul ,Mind none is yours. We can’t control any of them by our wish then for what we are fighting for.

Acceptance of the fact that you belong to no one: Our relatives, colleagues , friends , family are only a character of our life chapter.One day when anyone’s role finish , character finished.Your attachments with all is only memories or data base of your mind.

Acceptance of the fact that you have a limited time: Your time is limited ,so perform your task for which you were born.Know your value of life and find a reason that why you are here and for what reason.

Acceptance of all these facts is necessary for us to get the clear picture of our life and a close view of our target so that we can face the new world and accept it’s truth as it is.

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How to Judge People?


Whenever we ask this question that how we judge people, mostly people answer that on the basis of our thoughts about a particular person we try to judge him/her.

It means that thoughts are the basis reason of  our judgement , then our next question is..

What are thoughts?
As per our article , we can get the answer that what it is. It is basically the bundle of imagination which can increase or decrease its number by its continuous assessment.

Now what is the process of it ,how it comes first, whenever we say any word like Mango , so what comes first in our mind is “yellow color Mango”. So what ever we say ,our mind process that picture fed in our mind data base and then it will reflect which is called thoughts.

Now , Do we need to go as per our thoughts to judge people or we have to directly clear it with face to face interaction.

The correct answer is Face to Face interaction or conversation through which we can discuss about the misunderstanding/issue and clear the topic.

Our main motive is not to clear other’s mind misunderstanding , we need to clear our mind first. We need not to do these things like to think or allow our thoughts to prove or listen others talks. We need to just clear our mind and let other person overthink as now this is his/her problem ,not yours.

Please remember that our job is not to judge anyone , we need to just clear our mind from the bad thoughts that will allow us to overthink about that person and start judgment.

Our thoughts are only the reflection of our mind data base which has no connection with the current reality and to know to someone we need communication not thoughts.

So stop judging anyone and start knowing everyone.


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Love Vs Lust


Love : A pure bonding between two souls and true feelings with no expectations. Love can’t be define , it itself complete and one can feel its presence only if he /she has pure heart.Love can’t harm anyone , it can give tears but it can’t give pain of not getting something .You want to spend quality time together other than sex.You get lost in conversations and forget about the hours passing. you want to get to meet his or her family and friends .You can’t stop thinking about that person. In love , you can’t look anything except eyes as in it you will find your whole world.In love you can spend your entire life without criticizing.


Lust : There is no bonding in Lust . It has only addiction of getting yourself satisfied.In this you can’t see the dedication of love or even you can’t judge the emotions of love. In lust love is no where.Yeah there must be attraction for someone to getting him/her or jealousy for not fulfilling your  desires. In lust , you have addiction of one’s body not soul.

One can never talk about Family & friends and always want to meet alone . Eyes are not the connecting link here it always starts other than Eyes. In lust , you always complain not to do this & that and never appreciate your partner.

I hope our readers like this differentiate and want some more explanation then send us on comment.