My Journey towards My Blog


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Hello Readers ,

I am glad to tell you how & why I am here with Voice of dil.

It’s a long journey of my thoughts & views which want to spread on papers and read by readers like you.

It’s tough to explain each & every thoughts of your life to other person . Sometimes I use to talk to myself to tell me that I am my only close friend and share-taker of my thoughts.

Dreaming is good but live with that dream is not that easy the way we dream.

I always like to write my thoughts by different means or sometimes I decorate things around me to give the beauty of my thoughts which is unable to write.

Slowly, I decided to motivate people whom I know or don’t know to motivate them in their bad times and my friends appreciated me for my good work. After that I decided to write my own blog so that more people get aware of my thoughts and may be out of million of people few people find good ideas from my thoughts.

I believe in writing short but to the point. I know I am not much good in writing but soon I will surely win hearts of my readers .

I always want to share my thoughts to people and want them to take another thought too before implementing mine.

Thanks for your support & concern in spreading my ideas to your love ones.

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The Most Important Question Of Your Life


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Human mind can thinks between 60,000 – 80,000 thoughts a day. That’s an average of 2500 – 3,300 thoughts per hour. That’s incredible.

Did you notice what kind of thoughts do you think?
If you pay attention to these thoughts, you would be amazed to discover that most of them are useless, unimportant thoughts that pass through the mind with a huge speed. These are words you repeat in your mind, comments the mind makes, repeating what you heard said, questions, answers and a lot of senseless wandering thoughts that you might not even be aware of.

What’s the MOST IMPORTANT ?

Out of all these thoughts there is only one question which is the most important question of your life like in millions of sperms only one sperm reach to ovum and create a Baby. Our question is what is the Most important question of your life and one can say ,” I want to earn money , Good Job and a happy family ” , It it so or the actual thing you want.

Have you ever asked yourself  , ” what pain do you want in your life? What are you willing to struggle for? Because that seems to be a greater determinant of how our lives turn out.

Everybody want to live a happy Life , need happy family , earn lots of money , travel the whole world , want their family safe , need all electronic gadgets , want all kind of relief , branded cloths and 2-3 Mercedes and a high profile Job.

People want to be rich without the risk , without the sacrifice, without the delayed gratification necessary to accumulate wealth.

Everybody wants to have great sex and an awesome relationship— but not everyone is willing to go through the tough conversations, the awkward silences, the hurt feelings and the emotional psychodrama to get there. And so they settle.

Everybody wants something. And everybody wants something enough.They just aren’t aware of what it is they want, or rather, what they want “enough.”

I think that for me the most important question of my Life it ” How much I am ready to  suffer or to take pain” , so that I will know the real happiness of the life because getting things easily may not give you that charm which you will get after your tough times. That feeling is the real happiness of life.

It’s the question that can change your life. It’s what makes me me and you you. It’s what defines us and separates us and ultimately brings us together.

This is the most simple and basic component of life: our struggles determine our successes. So choose your struggles wisely and ask yourself how much you are ready to struggle.

 

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Right to Education


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Right to Education is every Child’s fundamental right 

Our Nation is promoting “Beti Bachao Beti Padhao abhiyan ” means Save Girls Educate Girls campaign.

If we are talking about education then it is mandatory for both boys & girls but people from past generation still believe that girls are born only to take care of home & do home activities . This underdeveloped thinking is still the cause of many countries growth. We have to change or get over from this mindset as today every child is equal whether its boy or girl.

I believe  in freedom to do things by your own way and no indiscretion , Fatwa & underdeveloped thoughts restrict you to not do those things.

Today’s generations are blessed with money as in past people donot have money to send their children to schools. We have opportunities to do something for our nation so as to educate our children for their & nation’s better future.

Its not only Army & Navy guys are doing job to protect our nation. God has given chance to each & every person to do something for their nation in different ways.Given your life is not the only way to prove your patriotism ,its only your good thoughts which will remain in others memory after your death.

We want people to open their mind and think freely and give education to their children. Good education will make their carrier and give different & logical thoughts to next generation .

We want our readers to  support & pass this message to each and every individual so that we can spread it widely.

Share as much as you can.

 

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Discover Yourself


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Who are you? If you can’t promptly answer that question you don’t have a very clear picture of your own identity. Having a clear image of yourself is essential in relationships, self-confidence and growth. Just as it’s impossible to reach your destination when you don’t know where you are, it is impossible to become who you want to be when you aren’t clear on who you are.

Ask yourself why you want to discover yourself : A tough question to think a right answer

Growth : Soon if you are unable to find yourself your growth will effect as it is impossible to start making movements towards where you want to be.

Relationships:

By determining exactly what product you are selling along with its features and weaknesses you will unknowingly market a product to whoever you meet. Because most people aren’t quite sure what product they are selling they can’t possibly market it effectively.

But when you know exactly what you are selling then you can start to present yourself in a way that will attract people who are interested in buying this product. Of course this is true of all types of human relationships, be they friendship, business or intimate.

Self Satisfaction:

Knowing that, for right now, this is who you are, has an amazing level of self-satisfaction. When you are completely honest or unsure about who you are it is easy to get trapped into looking at tiny imperfections because you can’t perceive the whole.

Write the good & the bad:

You might be find difficult to write negative about yourself but this process able you you discover yourself what you like or what dislike.When you write these things down, realize that they are a part of you too. Accept the truth that these are components of your identity. Uncovering these parts can be the most difficult, but it is absolutely necessary if you want a clear identity that can be improved upon.

Improve it

Work on your bad things and improve it before it you get late.Working on your own negative part teach you to how judge others negative part and soon you will know other identity too.

You need to do the same thing with your identity. Find the parts of yourself that you didn’t like and begin the process of changing them. Find the parts of yourself that you did like and accentuate them even more throughout your identity.

Slowly you are close to discover yourself and once you know yourself your life will become so easy to live for. Difficulties comes when you have less knowledge about yourself and then you start judging others too as as are on judging mode of yourself too.

Believe in you is the biggest thing one can ever do for self motivation and if you do all these thing I think you are on your first steps to creating a life you really want.

 

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Billionaire


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What is Billionaire?

We hear about “Billionaires” constantly. The term usually evokes images of celebrities, athletes and business leaders. We assume Bill Gates , Warren Buffet , Jack Ma , Mukesh Ambani etc are  all Billionaires.

We might also assume that a Billionaire literally has a Billion dollars of cash laying around, ready to be spent.

So what exactly defines a Billionaire? The answer isn’t as straightforward as you might expect.

The technical definition of “billionaire” is a person (or a married couple) with a net worth that’s greater than $1 billion U.S. dollars.

“Net worth” represents that person’s assets, minus their liabilities. Net worth is described as “what you own minus what you owe.”

How to Become?

  • Find your area of passion , don’t worry whether that field is the field everyone is pursuing or whether it is field which is in fashion. Even if it something which sounds boring but you may have passion for it then just go for it.
  • Once you find your passion, eat , sleep , breath it. Everything around and inside your interest area should be known by you. Trust me if it is actually your passion this will not take any effort.
  • Be extremely firm about your goal, don’t change it or don’t plan to shift after a few years just for the sake of experience.
  • Don’t be tempted. Through your journey, you will see your friends having fancy jobs and making more money. Ignore it. Just be focus and enjoy about what you are doing and never for one moment lose faith. Gap between you and your friends won’t take time to reverse.
  • Be healthy. Sounds irrelevant to the topic but trust me if you are fit, good looking with a good personality , your life will much easier. Even in low times, you will feel good looking at yourself in the mirror or just going for a jog.
  • Be in the Company of people those are crazy for hardwork & money. Looking at these people you will have no option but to up your strength.
  • Focus on the journey more than the goal. If your journey is pleasant, the goal won’t seem far.
  • Lastly, on your way to the top leave behind friends not ‘contacts’. One day one of these friends is gonna be reason to give you that extra million to make that billion
  • Sincerity, dedication, happiness and pure passion. Simple words but extremely difficult to pursue.

There are various other routes to become a billionaire. In my opinion , this is the way which cannot go wrong. Best of luck for your journey.

Let the bird fly


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I have listen you crippling sadly & seen your dreams to fly

Your cage may not pamper you and so your food

I saw you calling your mates from ground to so high

Your voice may not help you and so your barrier

I have  seen their movements change  in due course

They’re a restless lot , their struggles relentless

 But their desire to fly is boundless

I want to let you free & see you flying

Your heart feel happiness & so your world too.

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Purpose of Life


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The purpose of Life isn’t to be Happy – it’s to be fulfilled 

What is your Purpose of Life??? …….Ask this question to you on daily basis.

Majority of people will definitely answer ….Its happiness ” Their purpose to stay Happy”. If you dig deeper into what they mean, they’ll tell that they want to feel good and comfortable and be at ease. On the surface, that sounds innocent enough, but the reality is that this pursuit of happiness is actually the cause of much of our misery. The notion that pleasure and contentment are the solution to all of life’s problems, and that once you acquire these states you have everything you need, is misguided at best and dangerous at worst.

There is more to life than happiness.

Why not happiness?

I consider myself a reasonably happy person. On most days, there is a general baseline that I don’t deviate too far away from for too long. I’m quite fortunate in many ways, and I’m more than grateful for that. I have enough. I don’t need to be filthy rich. I don’t care for fame. I’ve come to terms with the fact that comparing myself to others is a waste of time, and I don’t want to get stuck chasing hedonistic temptations for the rest of my life. There is nothing more that I realistically need.

Yet, I write. And when I write, I want it to be good, and I want people to read it. I have my general ambitions, and there are things I want to accomplish. I work quite hard, and it’s not always fun. But if I’m already content, why? Because I know that if I didn’t have any sort of desire for something more, then I would cease to feel content.

The reason is simple. The cause of my happiness isn’t that I have enough, but it’s that I have worked to get to a point where I have enough. It’s not that I woke one morning not caring what someone thinks or deciding that hedonistic pleasures weren’t important, it’s that I spent a lot of time thinking those things were important, suffered for it, and then worked to make them unimportant. The difference is subtle, but critical.

My happiness isn’t a product of me getting what I want. It’s the byproduct of the different challenges I have proactively overcome to earn what I want. It’s the expectations I have met or readjusted over time. I need something to work at to get it. If I stopped pursing things tomorrow, my lingering happiness would escape. Over time, it would cease to mean anything, and I wouldn’t be able to refuel it by simply wishing for more.

Due to its fleeting nature, happiness alone isn’t enough.

Is struggle always bad?

In many ways, humans can be characterized as biological algorithms. It’s not an entirely perfect analogy, but it works quite well to explain our behavior. We respond to stressors in our environment, which is the input, by manipulating ourselves through a process as to give us an edge that presents itself in the form of an output. Over the long-term, how well we do this determines our ability to thrive.

In the modern world, we have a lot of choice in terms of the exposure that we want to give ourselves to these stressors. Most of us could easily go through life trying to avoid significant challenges that arise in our environment, but that requires a form of escapism, and it’s not necessarily a healthy thing. You may be able to temporarily avoid a fight with your partner or to remove yourself from the desire to work towards a goal, but eventually, something will give. At some point, discomfort invites itself.

While happiness is best defined as a state of being content, we didn’t actually evolve to be content. We evolved to strive and to struggle and to compete, so by nature, we don’t get rewarded for being consistently happy.

Although some parts of society have taken these characteristics to their extreme in how they incentivize the systems and corporations around us, this intrinsic want for more isn’t something we can just shut off. We need to be better and to make progress and to feel more than just enough. This means chasing some ambition, taking on pain, and exposing ourselves to slight variances in emotional states. Doing these things in extremes isn’t the solution, but deviating away from a comfortable median is what actually allows us to maintain a baseline that we can refer to as happiness.

Without struggling against something, enough would cease to be enough.

What’s your story?

Happiness isn’t obtained. It’s earned. It’s not the product. It’s the byproduct. For this reason, the idea that some serene state of bliss can be sustained with pleasure and contentment, although seductive, is misguided. Over the long-term, it takes more than that. It takes a sense of striving. Gratitude is important, to be sure, and so is being well-adjusted enough to not seek out extrinsic motivators to provide a solution, but these things alone will only take you so far. The real secret is to live a story.

It’s to create a narrative that appropriately incentivizes you to choose a level of discomfort and suffering necessary for sustaining a deeper fulfillment. That will actually keep you in motion. That’s what makes the difference.

If you take care of the story, happiness doesn’t need to be enough. You get something better. You get sustained fulfillment.

 

Beautiful Article written by Zat Rana, We thank you for giving us such a logical meaning to live with a correct Purpose of Life.