Life is about Experiments


Life is about Experiments

We all no doubt experience our fair share of setbacks and disappointments over the course of a lifetime. At one point things are going well, then all of a sudden an error of judgement, a fatal mistake, or an unexpected event can completely derail our efforts. And what seemed like a perfect day has turned into an absolute nightmare. 🙁

Life gets this way at times. In fact, life surprises us with unexpected twists and turns around every corner.

There is another saying that suggests that when bad things happen that we should turn lemons into lemonade, or in other words we should adapt to the situation and make the most of these circumstances for our own benefit.

These are all of course wonderful ways of looking at life; of looking at failure and setbacks.

Our life is full of adventure , it can be sweet and sour at any moment of time.Experiment to love more , to enjoy more , accept more worst things , experiment to do things what others cant do. Start loving your efforts , stay with things to know , don’t judge anyone.

Life is just to Live it not to leave it.

 

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Allow yourself for a New World


 

Acceptance

Acceptance is a difficult task one should start accepting factual things as soon as possible. We need to prepare our self to accept daily facts & truth and try to come out from our inside dilemma .

Acceptance of the fact that nothing is yours :- You were born with nothing and when you will leave this world you will not carry anything , then for what you are worried about.

Body , Soul ,Mind none is yours. We can’t control any of them by our wish then for what we are fighting for.

Acceptance of the fact that you belong to no one: Our relatives, colleagues , friends , family are only a character of our life chapter.One day when anyone’s role finish , character finished.Your attachments with all is only memories or data base of your mind.

Acceptance of the fact that you have a limited time: Your time is limited ,so perform your task for which you were born.Know your value of life and find a reason that why you are here and for what reason.

Acceptance of all these facts is necessary for us to get the clear picture of our life and a close view of our target so that we can face the new world and accept it’s truth as it is.

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How to Judge People?


RIGHT & WRONG

Whenever we ask this question that how we judge people, mostly people answer that on the basis of our thoughts about a particular person we try to judge him/her.

It means that thoughts are the basis reason of  our judgement , then our next question is..

What are thoughts?
As per our article https://voiceofdil.com/2017/12/13/how-to-control-your-thoughts/ , we can get the answer that what it is. It is basically the bundle of imagination which can increase or decrease its number by its continuous assessment.

Now what is the process of it ,how it comes first, whenever we say any word like Mango , so what comes first in our mind is “yellow color Mango”. So what ever we say ,our mind process that picture fed in our mind data base and then it will reflect which is called thoughts.

Now , Do we need to go as per our thoughts to judge people or we have to directly clear it with face to face interaction.

The correct answer is Face to Face interaction or conversation through which we can discuss about the misunderstanding/issue and clear the topic.

Our main motive is not to clear other’s mind misunderstanding , we need to clear our mind first. We need not to do these things like to think or allow our thoughts to prove or listen others talks. We need to just clear our mind and let other person overthink as now this is his/her problem ,not yours.

Please remember that our job is not to judge anyone , we need to just clear our mind from the bad thoughts that will allow us to overthink about that person and start judgment.

Our thoughts are only the reflection of our mind data base which has no connection with the current reality and to know to someone we need communication not thoughts.

So stop judging anyone and start knowing everyone.

 

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True my words too


Words too

Words are my world ,I mean each single letter of it

Together we start , together we break ,no discussion further we take

Life is short and Earth is round , may be ,we’ll meet one day.

Hope you never forget my presence ,hope I always guess you by your shade

slowly and slowly its reminding me each day.

Our walk , our talk , it was  like a sisters blog

Our fight , our love , it was like a Tom and Jerry episode .

I wish, I could meet you in my next birth ,

Together forever we can share the best of Best Friend.

My words were not fake , my love was pure,

but  I can’t explain the truth behind my vows.

 

 

In memory of my sweetest Childhood Friend .

 

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Vegan


VEGAN

What Is?

Veganism is a type of vegetarian diet that excludes meat , eggs, dairy products and all other animal-derived ingredients. Many vegans also do not eat foods that are processed using animal products, such as refined white sugar and some wines.

Vegan refers to either a person who follows this way of eating or to the diet itself.

Why you want to become?

Because you want to realize yourself that killing animal is wrong as they are also like us and their lives are also precious to someone.

Do you know you are killing plants too ?

Why we think that only animals are living being why not plants too. We are cutting plants for our purpose to create many things like papers, wooden products and many more. My concern is ,not to destroy Nature and even not think to play with it. Everything comes under Ecosystem and God made us to eat and being eaten by someone. Plants were born to be eaten by Animals and Animals were born to be eaten by either Big animals or by Human being and human being were born to be eaten by animals after death.

There is nothing permanent ,one need to die one day but killing all animals is not good as God made us Human to eat anything for our best survival and we are misusing our power of dominance and killing animals for our food.We need to think first that why we slaughter animals when we can eat plants too. Is it only about the taste?

Being Vegan is not the topic of right & wrong of killing animal , it is about to think why we go for it.Once we understand the reason of being Vegan then only we can persuade it.

Think and share your comment  with us.

 

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Be Fearless


Fearless

First Know what is Fear

99% people ask how to overcome fear or how to get rid of fear but no one ask What is Fear?

First ask yourself the most important question “what is Fear”? Is it what we are feeling or Is it nothing?

Actually fear tighten us or force us to do actions whether bad or good, fear is dominating our mind and controlling our activities. For examples, if earthquake comes then we definitely feel fear of death because we have attachments with our body and family and attachment comes from desire so fear comes from attachment. Where there is an attachment there is Fear.

Your attachment is the only reason of your fear like we have concern for our wife & children and when we have a thought of loosing them then we feel fear. We are actually not loving them, if yes ,then we have to give them freedom to do things or to go anywhere as per their wish and then we will not have any fear in our mind.

So we have to get rid of our attachments as it is not love it is the outcome of our desire and love has no attachments, if yes, then you will be biased and if biased then its not love.So if we start loving our people around us then we will never have fear in our mind.

Because Love has no fear ,it has freedom.

 

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How to Control your thoughts


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Thoughts are what?

Thoughts are a bundle of imaginations which can increase or decrease its number by its continuous assessment.

Why your thoughts tickle you ?

When our thoughts become overwhelmed it will burden and convert positive thoughts into negative. You start fighting with your own thoughts and try to compare each other which tickles you.

How to Control your thoughts ?

Having Control on your thoughts is a difficult task. One need to understand that God has given us mind to think but what to think is in our hand. We can think a miracle too and we can think a disaster too.

There is only one way to control your thoughts is to repeat good things in your mind. As when we do this we increase positive vibration in our mind and after our positive rethinking process it will slower the growth of negative power in our mind and then we can have command on it.

We have to do this in regular basis as in a day we can’t get victory on our negative thoughts we need to revise it in regular basis to improve our overthinking process.

Overthinking of a good thing is not wrong but when we overthink of bad things then it will give us negative energy. So think only for good things.

 

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