ADDICTION


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Its  your heartbeat deep in me , taking  my breadth away.

Slowly my eyes closing all the glimpse inside my mind  and falling me your side.

Your touch give me goosebumps , your deep breath make me alive .

My face turned red , My lips got dry , I found myself relaxing every night.

The way you see ,the way you speak , spreading divine attention

I think I have your ADDICTION.

 

 

 

 

 

Say NO.


Say-No

To stay Productive & minimize stress , you have to learn the gentle art of Saying NO.

There is nothing difficult to say No to anyone. Two questions may arise in your mind while doing this practice. First , it may hurt, feel bad , give negative approach.Second , if you hope to work with that person in the future, you  want to continue to have a good relationship with that person.

Here are the Top 10 tips for learning the Gentle Art of Saying No:

  1. Value your time. Know your commitments, and how valuable your precious time is. Then, when someone asks you to dedicate some of your time to a new commitment, you’ll know that you simply cannot do it. And tell them that: “I just can’t right now … my plate is overloaded as it is.”
  2. Know your priorities. Even if you do have some extra time (which for many of us is rare), is this new commitment really the way you want to spend that time? For myself, I know that more commitments means less time with my wife and kids, who are more important to me than anything.
  3. Practice saying no. Practice makes perfect. Saying “no” as often as you can is a great way to get better at it and more comfortable with saying the word. And sometimes, repeating the word is the only way to get a message through to extremely persistent people. When they keep insisting, just keep saying no. Eventually, they’ll get the message.
  4. Don’t apologize. A common way to start out is “I’m sorry but …” as people think that it sounds more polite. While politeness is important, apologizing just makes it sound weaker. You need to be firm, and unapologetic about guarding your time.
  5. Stop being nice. Again, it’s important to be polite, but being nice by saying yes all the time only hurts you. When you make it easy for people to grab your time (or money), they will continue to do it. But if you erect a wall, they will look for easier targets. Show them that your time is well guarded by being firm and turning down as many requests (that are not on your top priority list) as possible.
  6. Say no to your boss. Sometimes we feel that we have to say yes to our boss — they’re our boss, right? And if we say “no” then we look like we can’t handle the work — at least, that’s the common reasoning. But in fact, it’s the opposite — explain to your boss that by taking on too many commitments, you are weakening your productivity and jeopardizing your existing commitments. If your boss insists that you take on the project, go over your project or task list and ask him/her to re-prioritize, explaining that there’s only so much you can take on at one time.
  7. Pre-empting. It’s often much easier to pre-empt requests than to say “no” to them after the request has been made. If you know that requests are likely to be made, perhaps in a meeting, just say to everyone as soon as you come into the meeting, “Look guys, just to let you know, my week is booked full with some urgent projects and I won’t be able to take on any new requests.”
  8. Get back to you. Instead of providing an answer then and there, it’s often better to tell the person you’ll give their request some thought and get back to them. This will allow you to give it some consideration, and check your commitments and priorities. Then, if you can’t take on the request, simply tell them: “After giving this some thought, and checking my commitments, I won’t be able to accommodate the request at this time.” At least you gave it some consideration.
  9. Maybe later. If this is an option that you’d like to keep open, instead of just shutting the door on the person, it’s often better to just say, “This sounds like an interesting opportunity, but I just don’t have the time at the moment. Perhaps you could check back with me in [give a time frame].” Next time, when they check back with you, you might have some free time on your hands.
  10. It’s not you, it’s me. This classic dating rejection can work in other situations. Don’t be insincere about it, though. Often the person or project is a good one, but it’s just not right for you, at least not at this time. Simply say so — you can compliment the idea, the project, the person, the organization … but say that it’s not the right fit, or it’s not what you’re looking for at this time. Only say this if it’s true — people can sense insincerity.

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Shape your Insight


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Our mind is the most powerful gift for us given by the God . It is like a machine like our cellphone whose maintenance is in our hand. We need to polish it daily to get the good output. Whatever we will enter , it will process it automatically sometimes it works itself like when our mobile got hang.The reason behind it is we are force fully giving instructions to think and at the same time it is processing other task.

We need to shape our thoughts to improve our thinking process to get the good result .We need to focus on our thought process step by step .

Firstly , we should know what to take-in means we need to keep learning good things.

2- We have to start using all our senses to improve our thought process.

3- Start believing yourself and stay positive.

4-Give priority to your brain to give you the best result.

5-Repeat what you want to know often.

6- Start differentiating between the do’s and don’ts .

7- Start Accepting your thoughts.

These are few ways to shape your Insight through your Mind , we can improve other things too with more efforts on our weak areas.

 

 

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The Sunset.


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Your rise & hide , glow & bright make the whole world dark & light.

Your shine give green to leaves , your dark will disappear its color.

Your warmth give shine to river ,your dark give sound .

Your brightness give light to clouds , your dullness give quietness .

Your rise  give height to mountains your hide make it shorter.

I wish for your rise daily to make my day brighter.

 

 

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Launch of Kindle e book ” voice of dil”


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Hey Friends ,

Thanks for your awesome response we have received on our blog .

For our beloved readers we have launched our First Edition of Voiceofdil on Kindle ebook store . You can read our best articles over here. Help us to make it reach to other readers for better knowledge and more awareness.

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Treasures.


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The biggest treasure of human is their Smile , family & Friends.

There is nothing which can replace all the three.

My experience says that if you are not happy you can’t make other’s happy.

One has to smile not for others but for themselves. Your happiness can make you young forever.

Your family i.e your mother and father are the only  one who we will never expect anything from you and always give you ever their entire life just live for them too.

Your Friends , the only relation which we develop by our own. Love your friends as the are your secret holders and the best advisers. They always motivate you even to do bad things too 😉

These three treasures of our life is above all the gems we buy from money .They don’t need money they need your support.

 

 

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You will Miss my Writing!!! ” An Author’s Predict”


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Nothing in this world is constant except change.

An author is the one who is writing for their readers insanely. He never think about the good or the bad article he will write , he always try to write the best thing he has in his mind. An author cannot make happy to his all readers by his articles but yes he can tell you the truth which you are going to experience in your life by his writing.

An author is the one who has/will experience of all the ups & downs so that he can narrate you the best by his writing.

“You may love it or not but he will never stop”

He will never stop writing his own words because his readers are waiting , waiting to listen or to read the new & latest facts of life.

An Author never let you down , he will understand your requirements, live your problems , experience them and then write a solution . You will always get the best of your author as he is never biased and he will give you the exact reason of doing what he is saying.

He may not ever write for you but do remember his writing. His writing will make him alive forever in people.

You will miss my writing when I will not able to write , do remember all the day & nights you read my articles and felt relaxed , all the pages of articles that made your day happy. Remember me in your heart . One day you will get what you want , the much you give the much you receive and your all problems get resolve , its my predict !!!!!..Remember me when I will not able to write , said by an Author.

Friends that all from An Author’s side to tell our readers that we want to be alive forever in your hearts.

 

 

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