Aspects of Happiness


Happiness is not earn by anything not even money can do it.

Today we will talk about the Aspects of happiness. There are two types of happiness ,one is when we do things for us through making others happy and one is when we do things for others to make them happy and through which we also get happiness.

I know it’s little complicated to understand what I am talking about but it’s true and most of the people are not aware of these most important aspects of Happiness.

1- As per our first aspect of happiness we are making others happy for just our sake of happiness . Like few people show others that because of them you are happy but actually they are doing this just to make themselves happy. They basically steal your happiness one day after showing you long time happiness and then you realise that they are actually making you happy just to make themselves happy.

2- As per our second aspect of happiness, one will give you all happiness whether they are in worst situation but from heart they want to see you happy always . Here such kind of people are not stealing your happiness ,they are just trying to do their best to make you happy that’s it.

We rarely find second kind of people and mostly people get confused between the first and the second as they actually don’t know the exact difference of happiness.

So beware of such people as they may give you happiness but actually one day they steal all your trust.


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The Most Important Question Of Your Life


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Human mind can thinks between 60,000 – 80,000 thoughts a day. That’s an average of 2500 – 3,300 thoughts per hour. That’s incredible.

Did you notice what kind of thoughts do you think?
If you pay attention to these thoughts, you would be amazed to discover that most of them are useless, unimportant thoughts that pass through the mind with a huge speed. These are words you repeat in your mind, comments the mind makes, repeating what you heard said, questions, answers and a lot of senseless wandering thoughts that you might not even be aware of.

What’s the MOST IMPORTANT ?

Out of all these thoughts there is only one question which is the most important question of your life like in millions of sperms only one sperm reach to ovum and create a Baby. Our question is what is the Most important question of your life and one can say ,” I want to earn money , Good Job and a happy family ” , It it so or the actual thing you want.

Have you ever asked yourself  , ” what pain do you want in your life? What are you willing to struggle for? Because that seems to be a greater determinant of how our lives turn out.

Everybody want to live a happy Life , need happy family , earn lots of money , travel the whole world , want their family safe , need all electronic gadgets , want all kind of relief , branded cloths and 2-3 Mercedes and a high profile Job.

People want to be rich without the risk , without the sacrifice, without the delayed gratification necessary to accumulate wealth.

Everybody wants to have great sex and an awesome relationship— but not everyone is willing to go through the tough conversations, the awkward silences, the hurt feelings and the emotional psychodrama to get there. And so they settle.

Everybody wants something. And everybody wants something enough.They just aren’t aware of what it is they want, or rather, what they want “enough.”

I think that for me the most important question of my Life it ” How much I am ready to  suffer or to take pain” , so that I will know the real happiness of the life because getting things easily may not give you that charm which you will get after your tough times. That feeling is the real happiness of life.

It’s the question that can change your life. It’s what makes me me and you you. It’s what defines us and separates us and ultimately brings us together.

This is the most simple and basic component of life: our struggles determine our successes. So choose your struggles wisely and ask yourself how much you are ready to struggle.

 

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Reading ” A good habit and a bad addiction.


reading booksReading any thing is good to increase your knowledge but over reading can harm your thoughts.

We all knows that addiction of anything is not good for anyone whether it is related to good or bad things, addiction will always has bad results.

Good things about reading is :

  1. To know about authors prospective
  2. To know how to improve vocabulary.
  3. To know how to express feelings
  4. To know inspirational things
  5. To educate yourself
  6. Improved focus & concentration
  7. Get free entertainment
  8. To know how to reduce stress

Bad things about reading to avoid:

  1. Getting wrong thoughts
  2. Avoid feel the feeling of author
  3. Resist yourself to perform like the character
  4. Avoid getting emotional with the books
  5. Stop reading nonsense things
  6. Try to get rid of over reading or searching a lot about the topic

We all know that learning is good for us and get updated is cool enough.

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ADDICTION


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Its  your heartbeat deep in me , taking  my breadth away.

Slowly my eyes closing all the glimpse inside my mind  and falling me your side.

Your touch give me goosebumps , your deep breath make me alive .

My face turned red , My lips got dry , I found myself relaxing every night.

The way you see ,the way you speak , spreading divine attention

I think I have your ADDICTION.

 

 

 

 

 

Say NO.


Say-No

To stay Productive & minimize stress , you have to learn the gentle art of Saying NO.

There is nothing difficult to say No to anyone. Two questions may arise in your mind while doing this practice. First , it may hurt, feel bad , give negative approach.Second , if you hope to work with that person in the future, you  want to continue to have a good relationship with that person.

Here are the Top 10 tips for learning the Gentle Art of Saying No:

  1. Value your time. Know your commitments, and how valuable your precious time is. Then, when someone asks you to dedicate some of your time to a new commitment, you’ll know that you simply cannot do it. And tell them that: “I just can’t right now … my plate is overloaded as it is.”
  2. Know your priorities. Even if you do have some extra time (which for many of us is rare), is this new commitment really the way you want to spend that time? For myself, I know that more commitments means less time with my wife and kids, who are more important to me than anything.
  3. Practice saying no. Practice makes perfect. Saying “no” as often as you can is a great way to get better at it and more comfortable with saying the word. And sometimes, repeating the word is the only way to get a message through to extremely persistent people. When they keep insisting, just keep saying no. Eventually, they’ll get the message.
  4. Don’t apologize. A common way to start out is “I’m sorry but …” as people think that it sounds more polite. While politeness is important, apologizing just makes it sound weaker. You need to be firm, and unapologetic about guarding your time.
  5. Stop being nice. Again, it’s important to be polite, but being nice by saying yes all the time only hurts you. When you make it easy for people to grab your time (or money), they will continue to do it. But if you erect a wall, they will look for easier targets. Show them that your time is well guarded by being firm and turning down as many requests (that are not on your top priority list) as possible.
  6. Say no to your boss. Sometimes we feel that we have to say yes to our boss — they’re our boss, right? And if we say “no” then we look like we can’t handle the work — at least, that’s the common reasoning. But in fact, it’s the opposite — explain to your boss that by taking on too many commitments, you are weakening your productivity and jeopardizing your existing commitments. If your boss insists that you take on the project, go over your project or task list and ask him/her to re-prioritize, explaining that there’s only so much you can take on at one time.
  7. Pre-empting. It’s often much easier to pre-empt requests than to say “no” to them after the request has been made. If you know that requests are likely to be made, perhaps in a meeting, just say to everyone as soon as you come into the meeting, “Look guys, just to let you know, my week is booked full with some urgent projects and I won’t be able to take on any new requests.”
  8. Get back to you. Instead of providing an answer then and there, it’s often better to tell the person you’ll give their request some thought and get back to them. This will allow you to give it some consideration, and check your commitments and priorities. Then, if you can’t take on the request, simply tell them: “After giving this some thought, and checking my commitments, I won’t be able to accommodate the request at this time.” At least you gave it some consideration.
  9. Maybe later. If this is an option that you’d like to keep open, instead of just shutting the door on the person, it’s often better to just say, “This sounds like an interesting opportunity, but I just don’t have the time at the moment. Perhaps you could check back with me in [give a time frame].” Next time, when they check back with you, you might have some free time on your hands.
  10. It’s not you, it’s me. This classic dating rejection can work in other situations. Don’t be insincere about it, though. Often the person or project is a good one, but it’s just not right for you, at least not at this time. Simply say so — you can compliment the idea, the project, the person, the organization … but say that it’s not the right fit, or it’s not what you’re looking for at this time. Only say this if it’s true — people can sense insincerity.

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Faith


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Faith is Hope . It may be in God , in friends , in relatives , in companion . Faith is a feeling which has a coordination between our heart and mind where both of them settle and give a similar feedback.

Faith is a belief that make us positive internally and externally through emotions & actions.

Faith make us alive and give life to our sentiments , imaginations, predictions & emotions.

Faith is to make sure that things will happen sooner.

Faith is Life , hope & truth .

 

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Launch of Kindle e book ” voice of dil”


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