Don’t leave yourself



Think about others but don’t leave yourself behind.

In my all articles, I want to explain people not to loose yourself. Getting yourself is the biggest achievement.

Helping others is our social responsibility but loving yourself is our self commitment.

I always believe that you can make people happy only if you are happy.

Remember that people come and go,and of all the people in your life ,you are the one who is there to stay. You are the one who can choose to love yourself, choose to respect yourself and promise with all your heart and soul that you will never leave you.

Good or bad things happens in our life for a good cause and we need to learn from it rather to depress ourself.

One day , we need to leave this world and before it we need to utilise our life to make first yourself happy than others, for long term.

Believe yourself and never leave yourself before it leaves you.
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Love is always One sided


It makes me happy that’s why I’m doing it.

People are doing things to make themselves happy by saying the above said famous line. All of us trying to make ourself happy and becoming selfish as we never think about the second person.

Love is always One sided and most of the  people are in dilemma that love is always two sided which is not true as two sided love is only a expectation of our mind which has no connection with true love. We can’t control other side love, we can control our side only and how to do it is the question.

What makes me happy???? Today’s whole world is doing this thing to make themselves happy which is only a selfish approach towards any relation and it will lead to conflicts as we are not thinking about others.

In any relation when conflicts occurs it’s always because both person are thinking about their happiness. Both person have the same pain but one think that only I am in pain and other has less or no pain.

You can’t be happy by running for happiness for yourself. When we accept this thing that love is only one sided then we have no expectations from other and this is called true or pure love.

But ,no expectations is not our cup of tea as we are born to expect things. Expectation in my words is freedom of thoughts to accept bad or good things of other when you are in love with anyone.

Conflicts occurs when we have different state of mind in our relation which is not common and we only compare this common thing when we feel that love is both sided . 

If we accept that love is one sided then only we start loving the person even his or her negative points too.

Give freedom of thoughts to your Love.

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Let them hate you


If you’re like most people, you probably waste a huge percentage of your time worrying about what others think about you, and then behaving in a way that will prevent others from disliking you.

But why do we do this? What’s so wrong with being hated for who you are?

We are raised to believe that it’s good to be liked by as many people as possible, as demonstrated by politeness, giving respect to elders regardless of their behavior. We are told, in no uncertain terms, that it’s good to be loved and bad to be hated.

But is this true? What do we lose when we try to win someone’s love? I believe nothing.

We explore a world without people-pleasing and fake, manipulative attempts to make people like you. You need not to try to please people as you have rights to do whatever you want without harming anyone.

People need a point for gossip. If you do good things then also people find a negative point ,so don’t need to luer anyone just leave what people say or why they hate as they themselves don’t know why they hate.

Let them hate you.. you  just need to move on.

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Be Fearless


Fearless

First Know what is Fear

99% people ask how to overcome fear or how to get rid of fear but no one ask What is Fear?

First ask yourself the most important question “what is Fear”? Is it what we are feeling or Is it nothing?

Actually fear tighten us or force us to do actions whether bad or good, fear is dominating our mind and controlling our activities. For examples, if earthquake comes then we definitely feel fear of death because we have attachments with our body and family and attachment comes from desire so fear comes from attachment. Where there is an attachment there is Fear.

Your attachment is the only reason of your fear like we have concern for our wife & children and when we have a thought of loosing them then we feel fear. We are actually not loving them, if yes ,then we have to give them freedom to do things or to go anywhere as per their wish and then we will not have any fear in our mind.

So we have to get rid of our attachments as it is not love it is the outcome of our desire and love has no attachments, if yes, then you will be biased and if biased then its not love.So if we start loving our people around us then we will never have fear in our mind.

Because Love has no fear ,it has freedom.

 

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