Whenever we ask this question that how we judge people, mostly people answer that on the basis of our thoughts about a particular person we try to judge him/her.
It means that thoughts are the basis reason of our judgement , then our next question is..
What are thoughts?
As per our article https://voiceofdil.com/2017/12/13/how-to-control-your-thoughts/ , we can get the answer that what it is. It is basically the bundle of imagination which can increase or decrease its number by its continuous assessment.
Now what is the process of it ,how it comes first, whenever we say any word like Mango , so what comes first in our mind is “yellow color Mango”. So what ever we say ,our mind process that picture fed in our mind data base and then it will reflect which is called thoughts.
Now , Do we need to go as per our thoughts to judge people or we have to directly clear it with face to face interaction.
The correct answer is Face to Face interaction or conversation through which we can discuss about the misunderstanding/issue and clear the topic.
Our main motive is not to clear other’s mind misunderstanding , we need to clear our mind first. We need not to do these things like to think or allow our thoughts to prove or listen others talks. We need to just clear our mind and let other person overthink as now this is his/her problem ,not yours.
Please remember that our job is not to judge anyone , we need to just clear our mind from the bad thoughts that will allow us to overthink about that person and start judgment.
Our thoughts are only the reflection of our mind data base which has no connection with the current reality and to know to someone we need communication not thoughts.
So stop judging anyone and start knowing everyone.
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