Who are you? If you can’t promptly answer that question you don’t have a very clear picture of your own identity. Having a clear image of yourself is essential in relationships, self-confidence and growth. Just as it’s impossible to reach your destination when you don’t know where you are, it is impossible to become who you want to be when you aren’t clear on who you are.
Ask yourself why you want to discover yourself : A tough question to think a right answer
Growth : Soon if you are unable to find yourself your growth will effect as it is impossible to start making movements towards where you want to be.
By determining exactly what product you are selling along with its features and weaknesses you will unknowingly market a product to whoever you meet. Because most people aren’t quite sure what product they are selling they can’t possibly market it effectively.
But when you know exactly what you are selling then you can start to present yourself in a way that will attract people who are interested in buying this product. Of course this is true of all types of human relationships, be they friendship, business or intimate.
Knowing that, for right now, this is who you are, has an amazing level of self-satisfaction. When you are completely honest or unsure about who you are it is easy to get trapped into looking at tiny imperfections because you can’t perceive the whole.
Write the good & the bad:
You might be find difficult to write negative about yourself but this process able you you discover yourself what you like or what dislike.When you write these things down, realize that they are a part of you too. Accept the truth that these are components of your identity. Uncovering these parts can be the most difficult, but it is absolutely necessary if you want a clear identity that can be improved upon.
Work on your bad things and improve it before it you get late.Working on your own negative part teach you to how judge others negative part and soon you will know other identity too.
You need to do the same thing with your identity. Find the parts of yourself that you didn’t like and begin the process of changing them. Find the parts of yourself that you did like and accentuate them even more throughout your identity.
Slowly you are close to discover yourself and once you know yourself your life will become so easy to live for. Difficulties comes when you have less knowledge about yourself and then you start judging others too as as are on judging mode of yourself too.
Believe in you is the biggest thing one can ever do for self motivation and if you do all these thing I think you are on your first steps to creating a life you really want.
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